About

Who runs Orgasmly, and how it's built

Orgasmly is a private place to record what a session was actually like — and to see the patterns in it. It is an independent project, not a company product.

Last updated: 20 September 2026

What it is

A web app for tracking sexual wellbeing. You log sessions, rate how they felt, and note what was going on around them. Over time those notes turn into patterns you can actually act on — which is the point. The sample insights show the shape of it without asking you for an account.

It is free. There is no advertising, no subscription and no tiered feature set. We reserve the right to add paid features later, but anything free today stays free. That is written into the terms, not just said here.

Why it exists

Most tracking stops at counting. "Twelve times this month" is easy to record and nearly useless. The interesting question is the subjective one: what makes a session good, and does that change with sleep, stress, medication, hormones, method or company?

There is also a well-documented gap between men's and women's experience of heterosex — the orgasm gap — which is mostly a data problem before it's anything else. Recording your own experience honestly is how you find out what's true for you rather than what's average.

Who runs it

Orgasmly is operated as an independent project. There is no corporate entity behind it at this time — it is run by an individual developer. The service is operated from Australia, and data is stored in AWS's ap-southeast-2 (Sydney) region. The privacy policy states the same thing, including what that means if you are in the EEA or UK.

That is a deliberately small operation, and it shapes the product: there is no growth team to satisfy, no advertiser to report to, and no reason to collect anything beyond what the feature needs.

How it's paid for

It isn't, in the usual sense. There is no advertising, no data brokerage and no third-party analytics or tracking scripts on the site — which means the usual way an app like this would pay for itself (selling audience data to advertisers) is off the table by design. Running costs are covered by the operator.

If that ever changes, the privacy policy changes first and users are told. The promise that your data is not the product is the whole premise, so it can't be quietly revised.

How your data is handled, in one paragraph

An email address and a password are all that identifies you; the email is stored hashed. Notes and tags stay private to your account. Anonymous contribution to the global statistics is opt-in and only ever published in aggregate, above a minimum sample size — you can read how the floors work in the privacy policy. You can export everything or delete the account at any time, and deletion is immediate.

How the health guides are written

The Learn articles are written to be useful to someone trying to understand their own body — not to sell anything, and not to give medical advice.

  • Sources are cited. Claims about research or clinical guidance link to the original paper or the public health body that published it. Where a paper is cited, its DOI is included so you can read it yourself.
  • No invented expertise. No clinician has reviewed these articles, so no clinical reviewer is credited anywhere on this site. An empty reviewer slot is the honest state; a fabricated one would not be. If a qualified reviewer is ever credited, it will be a real, named person who agreed to it.
  • Dates are shown. Every article carries the date it was published and the date it was last reviewed, so you can judge how current it is.
  • Corrections are welcome. If something here is wrong — especially anything medical — email hello@orgasmly.org and it will be fixed and the date updated.

None of this is medical advice, and it is not a substitute for talking to a clinician who knows your history. If something has changed for you — pain, loss of sensation, a sudden shift — that is a conversation to have with a doctor, not with a tracking app.

Getting in touch

General questions: hello@orgasmly.org. Privacy and data requests: privacy@orgasmly.org. Security reports: hello@orgasmly.org, and please read the security policy first — we ask that you report rather than probe.