How Orgasmly works

People track their sexual wellbeing for the same reasons they track sleep or exercise: patterns are hard to see from memory alone. A tracker gives you a record you can look back on, so a vague sense that "evenings feel better" becomes something you can actually check. Orgasmly is built for that, and nothing else — no feed, no social layer, no ads.

Log an experience in seconds

Every entry starts with three things: when it happened, an intensity rating from 1 to 10, and whether it was solo or partnered. That is all that is required. From there you can add as much or as little context as you like:

• Intensity — a simple 1–10 scale, your own subjective read on the experience.
• Method and context tags — solo or partnered, the method you used, where you were.
• Mood and stress — how you felt before and after, each on a 1–10 scale.
• Duration and notes — optional free text for anything the numbers miss.

The point is speed. If logging takes more than a few taps, you stop doing it, and the data dries up. Everything beyond intensity, time and type is optional so you can capture a moment quickly and move on.

See your patterns

Once you have a handful of entries, Orgasmly starts showing you the shape of your own data. Instead of a running total, you get views that answer real questions:

• Intensity by day and time — when your best experiences actually happen.
• Method correlations — which approaches line up with higher intensity for you.
• Solo vs partnered — how the two compare across intensity, mood and duration.
• Mood and stress — whether how you feel beforehand tracks with how the experience lands.

These are correlations in your personal data, not medical claims. The value is in noticing something you can act on — a time of day, a bit of wind-down, a method — and testing whether it holds.

Private by design

A sex tracker only works if you trust it with honest data, so privacy is the foundation, not a feature. Orgasmly asks for an email address and nothing else — no name, no phone number, no IP logging. Your email is stored as a one-way hash. You can export everything you have logged as JSON, and a single tap permanently deletes your account and all of its data. Read more about our approach on the private by design page.

Who it's for

Orgasmly suits anyone curious about their own patterns, including:

• Solo trackers building a clearer sense of what works for them.
• Couples who want a neutral, shared record to talk from rather than guess.
• People exploring after a change — new medication, a life shift, a new relationship — who want to understand how things are evolving.

Prefer a tracker with no hardware to buy or charge? See how Orgasmly compares as a device-free alternative, or read why tracking your sexual wellbeing is worth the effort.

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